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Strategy and Cancer
by Gary Gagliardi
(I get a lot of questions about how Sun Tzu's strategy helped
me conquer cancer. I originally wrote this article on my strategy blog in
response to a reader's question.)
A reader asks:
Could you tell me how did you use strategy for healing yourself from
cancer. Thank you, Wichai B.
First, it would be inaccurate to say that I “healed myself” with strategy. I used the principles of strategy to make good choices that have allowed me to survive.
This experience inspired me to offer my books to a larger audience outside the corporate world
where I had been working for years. Others may find it of interest.
Reaction and Response
When most people are diagnosed with cancer, they react emotionally. They
don't know what else to do. Our emotional reactions to a challenge come down to
the "flight or fight" reflex. In the case of most cancer victims, they run away
from the challenge. They usually do this by putting themselves as the mercy of
whatever doctors they happen to have. They don't know what to do so they
"surrender" the responsibility for their fate to their doctors. But cancer
and disease in general is exactly the type of competitive environment for which
strategy was designed. When I was diagnosed, I felt I knew exactly what I had to
do. Though good strategy cannot assure your success in an specific battle
including these deadly battles, it does increase your chances, which is all you
can ask. I could have used good strategy and still died, but using good strategy
I did improve my chances of survival.
This started years before I was diagnosed with good initial positioning.
This was due more to my wife, who is more active in health issues because of
health issues in her family. Years ago, she set out to find us the best general practice doctor in our area.
She did this.
We had been with him for years, but it was his skill that actually diagnosed
my problem early. I was in stage-two cancer, but had no typical symptoms, but during an examination for a sinus infection, he found a swollen lymph gland.
The swelling was subtle. I couldn't even see it. A sonogram of the gland was negative, but
my doctor sent me to another great doctor who specialized in head and neck
problems. That doctor didn't even feel the swollen gland but just sent me for a
biopsy to be safe.
That was when I was diagnosed, but I wouldn't have been diagnosed if I
hadn't been positioned with good doctors, something most people don't bother
doing. Fortunately, we (that is, my wife) did this quite consciously years ago.
Fortunately, also because of strategic positioning, we also had financial
resources and good personal medical insurance, which made the rest of my
response possible.
My response to diagnosis consciously followed the four steps of the
progress cycle - listen, aim, move, and claim.
Listen: I knew I had to learn as much about my type cancer and possible
courses of treatment. I used the web to find out everything that I could about
the type of cancer I had, its treatment, and my choices regarding physicians in
my area.
Aim: There were two schools of treatment for my cancer. In choosing my
course of treatment, I choose the one which was very painful and debilitating
but which had a higher success rate. I chose the doctor in our area that was the
most experienced in that treatment. People have a choice of doctors, but don't
get the best because they don't think it is their place to choose. This is a
fatal mistake.
Move: I moved instantly, getting two operations within a week of being
diagnosed. I started radiation as soon as I recovered from surgery. I took
the maximum dose of radiation, which happens to be extremely painful for my
cancer.
Claim: In the years since, I have accepted my status and the disabilities
from my course of treatment. I live with a certain level of discomfort. Since my
treatment destroyed my saliva glands (and taste buds), I have to give myself
fluoride treatments every day to maintain my teeth. However, for me, the bottom
line is that I survived. By ComparisonAs a comparison, within
weeks of my diagnosis, a wife of a friend was diagnosed with a stage-one cancer
of the same type. It started in the same place, the tonsil, but it hadn't spread
to the lymph glands. Instead of dealing with it, she, like so many, surrendered
her fate to the doctors she happened to have. These doctors, as the odds
dictate, were just average. These doctors chose the easier course of treatment,
the one that was the "safest" in terms of their need for specialized skills.
Her treatment was designed as a "kinder gentler" approach, using just limited
radiation and avoiding the painful surgery.
At the time, we tried to communicate through her husband the increased risks
involved. However, they, like most people, were just not equipped to make these
decisions. Instead, they clung to the fact that her cancer was less advanced and
therefore less dangerous.
They didn't kill all the cancer with radiation. It kept recurring. Because of
their slow, limited response, the cancer got ahead and she fell behind.
As the cancer spread, she eventually went through a series of operations.
Most of these much more painful and debilitating than mine. They were also
performed by less experienced surgeons. She had the same neck dissection on one
side that I had, but as the cancer spread, she ended up having another one as
well. She also had part of her palate removed.
In the end, she went through hell. She eventually died about two years after
diagnosis, which is about normal this is a very fast cancer.
Summary
This experience was why I decided to start teaching strategy outside of the
corporate world. People have to be trained how to respond in a crisis. Without
training, they are paralyzed. People have to understand that unless they take
responsibility for their own position and making their own life or death
decisions, nobody else can.
This experience lead directly to my writing books like
The Golden Key to Strategy, aimed at a more general audience. Hopefully, I
can get everyone thinking about good positioning and productive reactions.
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